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Ms Kitty
Introducing Ms. Kitty

On Monday, when I wrote about the joys of handmade toys, I had no intention of actually knitting one of the little cuddlies whose pattern I was offering to all of you. I thought, what a cute pattern...but I have Serious Knitting Projects to work on, so no chance of me casting on for one of these guys. No way. I have sweaters to knit, and a scarf for orphans, and socks for a friend. I did not need another project on my needles. And I certainly did not need another stuffed animal in my life, as my bedroom shelves are filled with the little beasties.

But here it is Wednesday, and here I am putting the finishing touches on...a knitted cat. I don't know what happened. I was fine until I got home last night, and then...what? How did I end up knitting this darn cat? And why aren't I writing the post I had all planned out yesterday afternoon about Serious Knitting Things?

Because last night, I finally faced the fact that the little pewter urn on my table held the ashes of my beloved fifteen-year-old kitty Amber, whom we had had to put to sleep two weeks ago. I looked at that little jar, thought of my sweet-and-spicy little green-eyed calico, and felt compelled to Knit Something Right Then And There---not just any Something, but A Something that would express the joy of having Amber in my life, and my grief at her sudden passing.

Amber Pinknose Wiseheart
Amber "Pinknose" Wiseheart

So I knitted a cat. Totally on impulse, all in one night. She's a purple kitty, perhaps as a nod to my childhood Cowie (who despite my best search-and-rescue efforts, remains hidden in the basement, no doubt still giggling, despite all of your pleas for him to come out and have his picture taken).

I brought the pieces to work with me today, and have been stuffing and seaming them on breaks. I stopped by the local bead store at lunch to try and find the perfect shade of green crystals to use as eyes, and I found some little amber beads, as well as a heart with the OM symbol on it, and a charm that has a pawprint on it, all of which I'm slowly incorporating into Ms. Kitty. As I sewed her body closed, I added a handful of a sage/cedar/lavendar mix and a pink polymer clay heart bead I had made, one with a sparkling crystal in the middle.

Now here's the fascinating thing: Ms. Kitty seems to be a magnet for my coworkers. Everyone who stops by my cubicle picks her up, asks what yarn she's made of (Tahki Bunny, which was the softest purple yarn I could find at home), and, before setting her down again, each person without fail gives her a little pat or a little hug.

I did not intend to knit a cat. Rather, I think that this purple kitty has in fact knitted me, knitted me back together a bit after a loss of a small being with a very large and courageous heart.

Sometimes we knit. And sometimes our knitting knits us.





Several of you mentioned you were knitting for new tiny family members...We have a really beautiful book of adorable patterns for both Mom and Baby: Natural Knits for Babies and Moms: Beautiful Designs Using Organic Yarns by Louisa Harding. The free pattern this week, Knitted Cuddlies pattern is excerpted with permission from this very wonderful book.





Sandi Wiseheart is the editor of Knitting Daily.

What's on Sandi's needles? Photo coming soon of the finished Bonsai Tunic by Norah Gaughan. New to the needles: Swatching for a Sandi-sized version of the Corset Pullover! Plus, about 6 inches' worth of cables for a new design coming soon to Knitting Daily. Someone asked if this was the ONLY thing on my needles...you caught me! I am the Unfinished Objects Fairy, spreading my little stardust magic over as much casting-on and as many needle sets as possible.




Posted Aug 22 2007, 12:00 AM by KD Sandi
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StaceyH wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 5:04 PM
Sometimes life throws odd little balls at us. I had my kitty put down today and it really hasn't hit me yet. I'm looking for a project. When I learned to knit last year it was because I needed something to take my mind off of having had my dog put down.
Stephanie wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 5:10 PM
I just logged in and saw your post. So sorry for the loss of your kitty of so many years, but a nice way to remember her...
SharonH wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 6:27 PM
I so sorry for the loss of your kitty cat, Sandi. I'm glad you found a way to help yourself heal a little. I find knitting to be good for that.
Penny wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 6:47 PM
{hugs} may ms kitty help you find comfort...
Karlydk wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:26 PM
I was so excited when you mentioned an purple cow. I'd love a pattern for a cow.
I enjoy your newsletter very much.
RosemaryW wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:27 PM
I lost my beautiful calico kitty a year ago September and I know how you feel. I think you may have just inspired me to knit my own kitty.
MelissaI wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:30 PM
omigosh, you made me cry. I just lost my calico Samantha and I can't imagine a more fitting memorial than a from the heart knitted kitty. I will start today...
AnitaM wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:30 PM
Sandi, My love and best wishes on the loss of your Amber. We had to put down our beautiful dog of 15 years, Kyah, about a month ago. I still expect to see her every morning when I get up. We've planted a Japanese Maple in our backyard in her honour, and should see some leaves on it soon (it's almost Spring here in Australia). Ms.Kitty is beautiful - please give her a hug from me.
JenniferH wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:31 PM
Sandi, what a lovely cat & yr heart, too.
We had to put down my first goat this Spring & I wept as I hadn't since my Dad died. Unconditional love, beyond compare, whether cat or goat or dog or my childhood stuffie: Woofie-Toofie, a wolf who finally was stolen away & tossed into the dumpster. Jennifer
Melissa wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:34 PM
"Sometimes we knit. And sometimes our knitting knits us." Thus spake a truly wise heart.
RhodaB wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:39 PM
I volunteer in a cat shelter and have an elderly cat gentleman of my own, so your loss really resonates with me. Knitting is meditation, and it can help smooth so many of life's rough spots, just a little.
KariF wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:41 PM
Thank you very much for sharing this story with us. I got the sniffles! It's beautiful to see something like knitting... well, be transformative, and help us become better people.
RebeccaT wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:41 PM
Sandi- I lost my sophalina just a month ago. your story made me happy and weepy. Not having a knitted kitten at the time, house plants to visit (where I visited her ailing self in the bedroom) helped too.

I'm liking knitting daily!
JB wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:45 PM
Sandy, you write beautifully! I'm a dog person, but your story almost made me miss the last cat we had!

I like the knitting info I get from you, but I love the way you write!
EmilyR wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:45 PM
I just read about Ms. Kitty, Sandi, and I'm so sorry you lost Amber. I was casting on for yet another pair of booties and I had just said to my roommates, "What would I do without you to talk to?" They both just looked at me, but that's what cats and dogs do best. What would I do, indeed, without my furry friends and my needles... now I will add a knitted friend to the household. Thank you for your story, and for this magazine.
CarolS wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:46 PM
OMG, so sad. So sorry for your loss. I feel your pain.
She looks JUST like Gracie, a stray on the brink of death who found us in our back yard. Makes me think I'd like to try to knit a calico...brown, white, black to match our Grace. I believe her spirit would be knit in the hottest Diva pink I could find. (She rules the other two cats, dog, and bird!)
Thanks for sharing your loss. I'll give all the critters extra pats tonight.
AudreyF wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:46 PM
My heart goes out you! I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts. If it is any comfort, your work here brings joy to so many people. Reading your posts is like visiting with an old friend.
CindyH wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:47 PM
Your story brought tears to my eyes.
Anne Kaelber wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:50 PM
Oh, Sandi.... I know exactly how you feel! I lost my beloved Maxwell, ny ferret boy, back in June. His ashes sit on my desk in a small wooden box, but his absence from my day is huge. And just last week, we lost little Zoe ferret as well. Two urns on two desks...please let it be the last of the year!

I'm glad your knitted kitty has brought some peace of mind. I'm about to start a little elephant in a magazine I got a couple months ago...maybe we'll all find some peace for our losses as well.
DGraham wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:51 PM
Sandi, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. But what a wonderful tribute to Amber! Her body may be gone, but her spirit will live on.

-- Dana
KathieH wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:56 PM
A well loved cat stays with you forever...and a cat well loved sends other cats to you. Sometimes they are live and furry, sometimes knitted...but they ALWAYS come.
JonellC wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:57 PM
The couch is piled with half done projects, and what did you do, but make me want to make something else. But that's what Knitting does, it binds us together one stitch at a time, thirty patterns at a time, joys and sorrows together. I for one, appreciate your sharing, it enriches my day.
Vis Major wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:59 PM
Thank you for sharing your story with us. My condolences on your loss; your knitted kitty seems like a lovely tribute to your beloved calico friend.
LuanneR wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 7:59 PM
I am thrilled with the stuffed animal patterns! Our Charity Knitting Group at Church has knitted dozens of stuffed animals and have donated them to a shelter for battered & abused women. Each child that enters the center is given a teddy bear or other stuffed animal for his/her own. So, your new patterns give us some new & different things to do. For us as well as for some deserving children, stuffed animals is indeed Serious Knitting!!! Luanne
ValerieD wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:01 PM
Sandi- So sorry to hear about the loss of your kitty. I had to put down my almost 13 yearn old dog last fall and my heart still breaks. I am glad you found such a special way to commemorate your special friend.
JaneG wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:04 PM
Now I want to knit a kitty- just because your story touched me so. I am currently owned by 14 cat people and they and I greive with you at your loss, and rejoice with you at the wonderful memories and the healing that knitting brings.
I love your site- its' refreshing to have someone who is a REAL person, not just an artist or designer sharing feelings as well as wonderful knitting ideas.
Marcy wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:05 PM
We knit. What do knitters do for ourselves or others in times of emotional need? We knit. We feel better and others feel better. Isn't knitting great? i love knitting and my knitting friends and my knitting communities!! We knit!!!!!
LF wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:11 PM
Looking forward to return to sweater knitting topics. Did you publish the finalized dart instructions for the Hot Tomato top? Also, looking forward to seeing your finished Bonsai top - especially on would be nice!

Again, thanks for the great work.
Krisi77 wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:11 PM
I thought this was a lovely write up! I lost my special kitty 8 yrs ago. Now I think I really want to knit up a ginger kitty to remember him by... maybe a black and white one for my mom too to remember her mittens! Thank you for sharing this with us.
JanR wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:14 PM
My condolences to you on losing your kitty. I lost my sweetie last year and think of her often. They never really leave us.
DorothyN wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:16 PM
Such a sweet story about knitting your kitty. Sometimes we do things like that, wonder why, and then find out that they give us great comfort. Kitty picture is adorable. I printed the patterns the other day!
Wendy wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:16 PM
As the committed "person" to three cats and two dogs, I want to add my condolences, Sandi. What a touching story!

This may seem somewhat off topic (it would take too long to explain why it isn't - suffice it to say that it relates to making something comforting for a particular person in need), but I'm looking for a pattern I saw a while back and can't remember where. It's for a family of knitted mice, each with very sweet outfits. I thought it was in a back issue of IK, but can't seem to find it, so maybe it's somewhere else - maybe someone else would know? Thanks!
Meeb wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:18 PM
"Sometimes we knit. And sometimes our knitting knits us."

yes. thank you, sandi.
Sunnyknitter wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:20 PM
Writing is difficult with tears in your eyes. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I'll hug my little calico a little tighter tonight and think of you. I think your knitted cat is a beautiful tribute and hope she brings you some peace. It seems to be working for others!
MicheleB wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:22 PM
So sorry about your cat, Sandi. I'm glad you could knit out your sadness.

I miss my calico, too. She was 19, three years ago.
VanessaJ wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:25 PM
How inspiring! I too was wanting to knit the kitty - I had two pass a way, one was 15 yrs old and the other a 2 yr old black cat. Last Oct we adopted a 3 month old Calico - gorgeous - precious! Arent' they all. I too was debating whether to knit a kitty or not as I have a sweater in progress, a pair of socks, and too many shawls casted on -....but your story and how your kitty evolved or how you the kitty evolved you - has made me want to search for the perfect fiber to knit one in. Thanks!
Vanessa in Upstate NY
PaulineL wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:29 PM
My sympathy to you on losing your furry baby. My current love is a tiny dog and she means the world to me. Losing her would be heart-wrenching, so I think I understand.
Thomaselaskowski wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:29 PM
Dear Sandi, I too am so sorry to hear about your cat, I lost my best friend Darby, a sheltie this past spring and I understand. Your purple cat is so happy and friendly looking, thats why eveyone likes it. I am in awe for although i have been knitting for years, I am not very fast! I did finish a hat last night! Mary L
RebeccaW wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:30 PM
I lost the greatest love of my life, babochka, last fall. So I definitely hear you. She was 17 and a very grumpy old cat, but I loved her with all my heart. She was the best cat I knew, and we had such an amazing relationship. Sometimes knitting is the only right thing, isn't it?
Lisa wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:33 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, but what a beautiful story. Perhaps a little of Amber's spirit flowed through your heart and fingers into your knitted kitty. What a beautiful tribute to your loving companion.
RenaJ wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:33 PM
Thank you so much Sandi. We lost our fluffy bunny fur Arthur a few months ago and I just finished knitting a kitty for him. Glad to know I'm not alone in such things.
MJL wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:34 PM
The kitty is wonderful. And I wanted to offer my sympathy--I lost my 16 year old cat this spring--it is very hard to lose an old friend. Also wanted to mention that knitting bears for the Mother Bear Project is a lot of fun, and people respond similarly to the bears. Lots of ooos and ahhhs.
R-simon wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:41 PM
It was pretty eerie to discover this project this evening. We just lost our almost 15 year old Maine Coon Cat, Prairie Fringes, on Monday this week. Among all the wonderful traits of this beautiful 12 pound cat was her fondness for wet wool, and finding it her duty to "Press" sweaters/shawls while drying.
I miss her terribly, but she is in a better place and with all the fur people noted here and they are discussing the great benefits of living with knitters.

Becky
Lori RaelN wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:42 PM
The tears rolled down my face as I read your post today about knitting Ms. Kitty. How wonderful for something as simple as knitting a stuffed kitty and adding all those special touches to be the very thing to help you past your grief over your cat's sudden death.
Nshively wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:57 PM
Sandi Wiseheart you are an AWESOME writer! Nancy
AnnB wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 8:59 PM
Who says that knitting is just an old fashioned activity for crafty old ladies? Non-knitters cannot comprehend the emotions that go into a blankie for the new baby, a perfectly putrid pink sweater for the little niece who has her little heart set on that "softie" yarn, or the beautiful afghan made stitch by stitch for the new bride with so much hope for the future. No one I know knits just to add to their wardrobe, it is an extension of their heart, their love, and often, their prayers. Thank you Sandi, for sharing your heart with us.
LauraV wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:00 PM
I lost my cat of 14.5 years and I can't stop crying. This was an awesome article and one that is really touching. I have very Serious Knitting to do, but I think I need to knit a little brown kitty so that I think of Buckaroo Bonzai every day. Love this article.
Kristina wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:02 PM
I have never been much of a pet person, well at least not until I started dating my husband. He told me in the very begining of our relationship that if I ever asked him to choose between me and his cats that it was really nice knowing me. Spoot and Maceo were the first animals that I truly fell in love with. 18 months ago we had to put Spoot down. She had some form of cancer and even with treatments her life was not going to be the same. We too have her in a beautiful inscribed urn in a place of honor next to a picture of herself. I am tearing up as I write this. I think I may just cast on a little kitty of my own. My deepest condolences for your loss.
NinaE wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:06 PM
This was a beautiful post -- truly touching, since two of my cats passed suddenly this past year.
A little while ago, I knit my dog (aging, creaky, with various maladies yet still as sweet as can be) a big rectangular swatch of Blue Sky Alpacas Bulky Naturals and felted it. As I left home for grad school, worrying as I always do when I leave him for extended periods that it's the last time I'll see him alive, he brought out the square and sat, chewing it, for me to see.
Thank you for your words.
-Nina
Isobel wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:08 PM
Sandi--that was beautiful. Especially the part of your knitting knitting you.

Isobel
DebraC wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:14 PM
I am sorry to hear about your cat's departure from this realm. I understand where you are coming from, and think that your purple Ms Kitty is a cute tribute.

I wish I had a pattern to knit (or crochet) a ferret, as I would love to make a tribute in memory of my departed ferrets, and all the foster ferrets.

If anyone has such a pattern, please let me know.

Thanks Debra
JosephineM wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:15 PM
Hello Sandi,
Thank you for sharing your story about Amber and how knitting Ms.Kitty teaches you so much. It touches my heart! Knitting is indeed a journey and I'm always surprises at all the lessons that come along the way. Thank you for doing such a great job! Take care! Josephine
SandraKDavid wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:20 PM
Those of us who have had our lives blessed by our furry companions are so lucky. Thank you for sharing your story and Miss Kitty with us. Now it's time for me to download the pattern and see about starting my own Miss Kitty.
Lifeinthepastlane wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:27 PM
Hi Sandi,
I am so sorry about the loss of your dear little one. My DH and I had to make that decision for our sweet Toto, a Cairn Terrier, almost 2 years ago. I saw your post and immediately tears sprang up in my eyes as I realized your pain. I know I found great comfort in my knitting at the time as well. I didn't knit anything profound, but the peaceful rhythm of the familiar gave me some comfort. I hope it helped you too.

Thanks for all you do!

Becky P.
MelissaB wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 9:45 PM
Your story is really charming. I think we have all had heavy hearts and I'm glad that yours found an outlet. Your cat is fantastic. I can't believe how many extras and doodads you have added to make her so special.
Ladyspring13 wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:05 PM
It's interesting that you chose to knit this in honor of your kitten. I have the same plans for some cashmere yarn that I've had for awhile, also to honor the memory of my calico that passed away last weekend. Thanks for the final push in the right direction.
PattW wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:08 PM
Hi, I just lost my kitty of 12yrs. We are having to move soon, so it's not so bad, as she would find it hard to adjust. I wanted to tell you that I liked the Cabled Aran by Cathy Payson in this Fall's issue. I had some undyed Fisherman's wool, that worked to gauge and started it on the 9th of August. I modified it by making it in the round, making steeks to cut open the neck and arm openings. I added some short rows to the back. The sleeves were picked up at the armholes and knit down. I love this sweater! It is cute and modern and a quick knit. I plan to dye it, but don't know what color or dyeing method to choose yet. I have a real cute sweater to start the Fall season.
MarieS wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:14 PM
I think you knitted cat did what flesh and blood cats already do, find their owners. Cats pick their owners, we don't pick them. This little cuddle cat knew you needed someone.
HaleyL wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:15 PM
sorry to hear about your loss, but glad you gained a little peace and happiness with your new knitted kitty.
MistyY wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:15 PM
I downloaded your Cuddlies pattern yesterday because I have a little redwood box in my studio that holds the ashes of my beloved kitty Inky, who died 6 months ago and who still holds a huge amount of my heart. And I have a lovely little niece who loves her daddy's cats and for whom I knit many things. And now I will be knitting her a Cuddly Cat to heal my heart and to bring her joy on her 2nd birthday in a couple of weeks. Thank you for this wonderful little pattern, and I am so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels.
KathyL wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:23 PM
I never realized how many other folks there are that retreat to the comfort of knitting during painful or stressful times. When my father passed away, I knitted a sweater while sitting with him. When my father-in-law passed away, I knitted whilst sitting beside his bed. When my beloved dog was put down, I knitted socks. In each stitch there is a gentle loop of "closure" if you will, that helps soothe and heal hearts that hurt.I have always found peace with my knitting and probably always will!
Mary wrote re: Knitting A Salve for the Heart: The Tale of Ms. Kitty
on 8-22-2007 10:25 PM
What a touching post, Sandi. You left me quite teary. Thank you for sharing from the heart. I think I'd like to knit a little stuffie as my next project (which I think is Serious Enough Knitting).